Anonymous asked: I'm a 14 years'd old girl who is fed up of all the things in this life. Firstly, I go to a private school which is the most expensive school in my country and my parents are not wealthy and the school never gived me a scholarship even though we tried so hard. Because of this my brother goes to a state school and in that school they don't even teach a foreign language. This makes me so sad that I don't want to live on this planet - although my grades are so low that I fail in almost every lesson.
Well have you ever asked to go to a public school?? And if not, why don’t you just try harder?? You should really appreciate the work your parents go through to let you attend such an honorary school cause it’ll look really good to colleges. Just try harder, or talk about going to public school if possible
Anonymous asked: So, I'm wondering if love is in my future?
I’m sorry I give advice not psychic readings
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Shit, 43 messages. Please don’t rush me…
Anonymous asked: im not sure if i should do this or not.
im thinking of telling my "crush" that i like him but i wanna stop liking him; and the only way for that to happen is if he says he doesnt like me back.
p.s. we barely talk at all. so yeaah :/
If you think that’s what you should do, then go for it. I think it’s really unnecessary quite honestly. If you barely talk, and he’s your crush, I feel like if you gave another guy a chance and talked more to him you could probably fall for him. The fact that you like someone that you barely talk to means you probably like him based on his looks. So, just try talking to someone nicer and things might work out better.
Anonymous asked: okay, so here's the deal. i'm in love with this guy. we dated for a year and then we had a big scandal situation (long story), and because of it we aren't allowed to even be friends or talk publically. his mom despises me and if we even get caught talking we get in huge trouble. but i love him with all of my heart. and he loves me. so for the past year him and i have been secretly together.. we meet up to be together and talk secretly. he's had gfs. so hes cheated on multiple girls with me consecutively without even thinking twice about it. i need him in my life more than he can be. i need a guy who can talk to me at school and be there for me. he does the best he can for the situation, but its hard. i've tried being with other guys, and it's nothing compared to him. i only want him but he wont tell his mom. he oesnt want to dissapoint her. i love him more than anyone in the world but this relationship is effecting me so much. no one knows, so i can never get an opinion from my friends or anything like that. please help me, an outsider looking ins opinion would help me a lot. xoxo
Honestly, I don’t think he’s worth it. If he really was trying for you, he wouldn’t date other girls. End of story. Even if he tells you “I won’t do it again, I’m sorry” I wouldn’t buy it. Since the situation is so difficult, just try taking a break for a little. I suggest just trying to see other people. You might be surprised who you can meet when you have a different outlook on the situation. Just try. If it doesn’t work out, try being single. I really don’t think you should be with him because he doesn’t seem to care about you as much as you care about him, or as much as he says. Also, if he really does love you, he will tell his parents. No matter what the circumstances are, love should be honest, open, and well-known. If he agrees to tell his mom, then I say try it. But otherwise, you deserve better.
Anonymous asked: My ex dumped me 5 months ago but i'm still not really over him. We were together for almost 2 years (we are only 15) and i really loved him. I just want to be able to move on because he's all i think about, but he is long gone and moved on, besides he has changed to much and i would never go back to him. But i don't know how to move on? I do still like other guys (i've not been with anyone else though) but it's just not the same, i missed what me and my ex had, he was my first love. Please, how do i move on . . . .
It’s hard to ever move on, but it is possible to move forward. Since he was your first love, I doubt you’ll get over him anytime soon, if ever. I can guarantee that you will always love him. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try thing with other people. Just try to talk to other guys, and once you start flirting and stuff, you might realize how much you missed being single. It’s hard to get through a break up with the one you love. But it is possible. Just relax, take a deep breath, and remind yourself that you deserve the best.
Anonymous asked: how did you know you liked your boyfriend before you two started going out?
Actually, it’s funny because we never flirted. Ever. We were just really good friends. He said he could tell because of the way I looked at him. I could tell because of that too. Just pay attention to body language. But if you’re not in person, like you only text or whatever, just flirt, and see how he responds to it.
Note: Eventually I told him straight up. I’m a straightforward person though. So, you can try that too!
Anonymous asked: GIRAFFE my bf of 2 months told me his fantasy of us: we're watching a movie at his house downstairs, and then i whisper in his ear "lets go to your room". slowly his shirt comes off, and then mine, and he explains that we start having sex then fall asleep in each others arms. now he wants me to tell him my fantasy of us. i cant think of anything, please help me out and tell me a sweet sexy fantasy i could tell him? i know i sound pathetic, but thank you so much GIRAFFE
Well it depends on what you want to do. I have no idea whether you two have had sex or not, and I don’t know if you want to. BUT judging by what he said, since you’re not mad, I will assume that you want to or have.
I can’t really help you because I have no idea what you want! Just say something you’d want to do. Like having a tickle fight until he starts kissing you, or you wrestle and then he kisses you or something. You have to really think about what you would want to do!
I would like write a whole story out but then I’d probably feel really creepy posting this. If you message me un-anon I could probably send you stuff to say if you would like!! Hope this helped a little bit, I know it wasn’t very helpful.
Anonymous asked: How was it when you met Aaron's parents? Because I'm meeting my boyfriend's soon and I'm so nervous :s
Don’t even worry about it!! They were teenagers once too, and they’ve probably had to meet more than one pair of parents. They know how you feel and they won’t make it awkward for you…on purpose. Just pretend like it’s meeting any other friends parents, just be polite and easygoing, but don’t be too relaxed. It’s easier than it seems(:
Anonymous asked: Ok so me and this guy use to talk as friends and he was older than me and i told myself not to get feelings for him because he still was in love with his ex girlfriend but some how i guess he got over her and hooked up with one of my friends and now they're going out and its kinda hard for me i guess to see them together and tomorrow would be our six month aniversary if we were still talking i guess im just not letting go? help? :p
It’s always hard letting go. But he seems to be in a serious relationship, so don’t mess with it. Just let whatever happens happen. Especially since he’s dating your friend, you wouldn’t want to get in the middle of that. So just relax and try to meet other guys to get your mind off this current guy, you never know, you could find someone amazing.
Anonymous asked: Hi :) So around a year ago I got into a relationship with the girl of my dreams, after school i moved away for about a year and we didnt get to see each other that much... so we called it off. Now that i moved back I realized that I still have HUGE feelings for her. she's been single for about 2 months now..but i dont know if she'll accept me again :\ what should i do?
Well I think you should start slow. First start talking to her again, then slowly start flirting. If she feels the same way that you do it should be easy and she’ll flirt right back and want to be with you just as much. If you want, try doing something really sweet so the feelings come flooding back. I promise, if things only ended because you moved, it should be simple to get her back!
Anonymous asked: i hate my life. i really dont have many friends, my mom and stepdad struggle with subtanse abuse, my dad and step mom kinda iqnore me, i have never had a boyfriend any time i get close to one they try and sleep with me and i dont want that so they leave, my friends dont talk to me anymore bc i 'changed' but they don't understand nobody does. someone who i thought really liked me took advantage of me my brother owed him money and said he would hurt him and my family unless i helped him. so he took my virginty. today i feel so alone i never told anyone thats what happend i dont think anyone would care. i think about sucide everynight but i am afraid.
Just remember that you are in control of your life, and don’t let anyone else influence it. Eventually you’ll be able to move out and your parents and step parents won’t be as big of a problem. I think you should try talking to them if you think you can. If you want to, you should consider talking to your guidance counselor at school. But you’re probably too young too help your mom and step dad alone, so you should try to find someone who can help you.
And if you didn’t know this already, you deserve better than the guys you get involved with. I think you should get to know different guys that would respect you if that’s possible. Just respect yourself and be smart about who you hang out with.
And don’t think about committing suicide. So many people would be upset and miss you. Things will get better I promise.
Anonymous asked: I'm 14 year's old and I've never had a boyfriend before :( Maybe it's because I seem so cold to people but once they get to know me they think I'm friendly. Also I don't have a summer group to hang out in my summer house. I'm fed up being alone I want a group of friennds that I can talk with and of course a boyfriend. I don't know why I am like this. I'm very shy and there's a cold look on my face and I have acnes maybe that's why nobody ever looks at me. I have close boy friends and I'm in love with the one of them maybe I fell in love with our friendship I don't know he's very kind to me and he doesn't know that I love him. I am scared that my enemy can tell him everything my enemy who used to be my very close friend and she is a very popular girl, she knows all my secrets even about him. I know he will never date with me but before him I want somebody to have my first kiss.
Well you’re only 14, you have lots of time to have your first kiss and your first boyfriend. So don’t worry about that!!
But if you feel like you’re unapproachable, just try to be more social. Talk to people, compliment them. If you can, join a club or play a sport. I’m assuming you’re in high school, or going into, which is a great time to make new friends, and meet new people.
And as for the guy you like, don’t think he won’t like you. You can never be sure. When you talk, maybe try flirting, but only a little, and see how he reacts. If he flirts back, maybe he’s interested!!
Anonymous asked: So there's this guy who told me he liked me, 2 months ago. We see each other all the time, we're basically best friends. At the time, I didn't know how I felt, because I was still hurting over my ex. Now that I know that I do like him back, it seems like he's changed his mind.. I wouldn't know though, since we haven't talked about it. But yesterday, we were watching TV on his couch & he put his arm around me? That's new. Maybe he still likes me.? What should I do.. Is it worth a shot? I've seen his tumblr posts..... And they're about a girl leading him on. What if that's me? But I'm not leading him on.. I don't know. Too confusing.
Well if you’re really that close of friends, it should be easy to bring this up with him. Just tell him that you were unsure at first, but you really do like him now and you’d want to try things out. If he doesn’t feel the same way, just say okay. Don’t worry about it, and if you’re friends then it should be an easy, non awkward conversation(:
